Lately I’ve been talking a lot about surrender….mostly
because it’s all I’ve been thinking about...and the more I think about it, the
more I realize that for me surrender is really about giving up control. I like to be in control… I like knowing what
to expect, how to respond, and even that I have the option to change things up
if I need to. But this relationship I
have with God doesn’t work when I try to be in control. I can’t serve two masters….myself and God. Either God is the Lord of my life and thus
has all control, or I can desperately try to hold on to what little control I think
I have and spend my life living only for me.
Seems like a pretty obvious choice…albeit not an easy one to live out.
The other area I
feel like God has been speaking to in terms of surrender and control, is in the
area of my relationships. For me it’s
really easy to let people go out of my life.
I understand that relationships, no matter how good or bad they are,
aren’t always forever, and so I really have no trouble walking away from
people. So if God was asking me to let
go of some people in my life, it honestly wouldn’t feel like much of an act of
surrender. However, instead it feels
like God’s asking me to head in the opposite direction…..to let my guard down,
invest in people, risk being hurt, even risk being seen in a different light….and
in so doing surrender my relationships to Him.
That means not trying to “get” people to like me, not trying to “fit”
into whatever role I think people want to see me in. It means just “BEing” who God created me to
be, following the Spirit and trusting
that He will guard my heart and mind in whatever relationships He leads me to. It’s interesting to me, that even in the past
few weeks as I have stepped out to honor Him in this way, I’ve seen Him
move. For example, remember my blog post
from last week about my childhood friend who moved in across the street and for
who I baked cookies for? That was one
HUGE step of faith for me, trusting God to work in a relationship I felt was
broken beyond repair. Well, in the mail today I also received an
invitation from this said friend inviting me to her house warming/engagement
party in a week in a half! I am in awe….here
was a door that I thought was closed forever and God seems to be doing the
impossible as I step out in faith!
I don’t know where
this path will lead. I don’t know if any
of these things will really make a difference to anyone but me or whether or
not these acts of surrender will do anything more than bring me closer to God. But to be honest, it doesn’t matter. I want more of God. I want to know Him more personally and to
walk with Him more closely. I want to love
Him more fully and give myself more completely to Him. And if that’s the only thing that comes from
this life of surrender then I will be happy, because I know this is the
Abundant Life!
Hi Jessica! I found your blog through the Stuff Christians Like link...slowly making my way up. I really enjoyed reading your posts. The book reviews were really great and well written. I specifically loved this post. Hearing your heart was inspiring. Allowing new friends to come in is a great goal. Relationships are one of the biggest ways that God teaches us both about our selfishness and His love. Best wishes on your journey. I hope we will become "blogging friends". I can't wait to keep up with you as your feeds start rolling into my reader. Happy Blogging!
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